When does love end? *re-post*

Saturday, June 13, 2009 at 1:16am (from my facebook account)



I won't answer questions but ask them straight from point to point.

What is the line that should not be crossed when loving someone?

Is it the family sore spots?

Is it the relationship with other friends (of the other party)?

Is it the bad habits?

Is it the past relationship stories?

Is it when they hurt you (physically)?

What is it?

If love is something abstract, and something that varies from one point to another,
is there a common denominator in between of those similarities in terms of not knowing what it is...
but on knowing what it is no more?
like... when it ends?

Is it you who sets what love is?
So does that make you have the power to set the bar for how long is enough?
Was your criteria influenced by the right people?
by the right principles?
but then again... who sets what is "right" or not?



But then again, when is it over?

Is it a sudden outburst of courage to cut ties?
To finally stop the sudden impulses of the ridiculously horse pumping of the heart?
To finally stop talking?
To finally stop seeing each other?
To finally look for another?

Usually people tend to say that love ended when you've moved on....

But is it Love that ended... or just the relationship?
Is Love and Relationship a necessity to promulgate the meaning of each word?

I can't really say....


I don't know the answer on when it ends nor on when it starts...
but maybe...
just maybe...
"Moving on" isn't the right term to say it ends here...
but maybe....
might be....
that it is...

"Moving Over" - the phrase that cherishes the past and getting ahead of it....